• 05/04/2023: First meeting at a climbing gym

• 08/2023: Reconnected through a cat's picture and a shared desire to have kids

• 09/2023: Started dating

• 10/11/2023: Engaged in a close relationship that resulted in an unplanned pregnancy

• 11/01/2023: Discovered the pregnancy, informed him, and agreed to be together

• 04/15/2024: He moved into my house rent free

• 06/27/2024: Birth of Oliver

• Sunday Morning: Spent all his time on his phone.

• Sunday Night: Bragged about his contributions and told his brother that I skipped night feedings.

• Sunday Before Bed: Blamed my concerns on postpartum issues again.

• Monday Morning: Took Oliver to daycare without my permission or even informing me.

• Monday Morning: Let Oliver cry for 15 minutes without addressing his needs, forcing me to step in, change his diaper, and comfort him. When I confronted him and raised my voice, he took Oliver away from me, unintentionally causing harm.

• Monday Morning: Kept Oliver away from me and locked the door, seemingly to make me worry. How could I harm either him or Oliver? I called the police. 

• Monday Afternoon: Claimed that Oliver is happier with him.

• Monday Night: I asked him to leave and kicked him out. We went to urgent care and check on Oliver. 

Taking care of Oliver on my own and it's been good.

• Offer him time with Oliver but no overstay because he doesn't have his own home to stay in.

• Text saying he doesn't want to pay for daycare 

• I didn't agree on the parenting timeline and was expecting him to return Oliver for swimming session.

• Contact lawyer, police, mediator and therapist. 

• 12/09 He paid for day care after I said he won't based on his schedule. 

• Too traumatized and went to urgent care. 

• 12/10 Gave a two week notice of end of UNMC day care.

• move to my parent's house to take care of Oliver better.

• notified them can't take Oliver away without a court order since they don't follow agreements.

• notified them I am moving to my parents' house. 

• he sabotaged my bedroom lock while moving.

• threaten me to get my dog to Humane Society. 

• My parents were taking care of Oliver when I was working.

• I was shopping for new day care fits my schedule since I am the one pick ups and drop offs.

• Told him will let him know when Oliver is admitted. 

• ​12/18 He lied about the loan. 

• 12/18 Got the complaint doc from them.

• 12/20 He filed a change of address.

• let him know the daycare Oliver admitted to

• Ask about his new address but no answer

• Agreed for them to take Oliver on 12/30 but they refused to confirm the return date, time and location.

• Sent a list of overnight requirements list. 

• He took Oliver from the doctor’s appointment and refused to provide me with details about when he would return, insisting that I contact his lawyer for information.

• During the doctor’s visit, he refused to use an app to track Oliver’s food progress.

• He also yelled and questioned my breastfeeding efforts during the visit, despite it not being feasible earlier because he failed to take proper care of me.

• He dropped off Oliver at my parent's place out of no plan at all. ​

• Oliver was with a full dump, dry boogies in his nose, and bandage stickers not cleaned. 

• He contradicted his own lawyer on the schedules and accused me once again of not taking good care of Oliver, without providing any evidence.